It's true... over the last couple of days, I've developed an affair. Although she's a bit short and a more stubbly than I like -- and, okay, she has eight eyes and legs and sucks the blood out of her victims, leaving nothing but dried husks in her wake -- she's a miracle and she's been ever so patient with my focused...
ehhh?... what's that you say?
I see. (big sigh) ... yyyooouuu want honesty? You want me to "get real" about my addiction? You want me to take that first step?
Okay... She's been ever so patient with my "obsessive" attentions. Satisfied? I admitted it? I'm obsessed. Can we move on, now?
However, I think when you see her, you'll agree. She's worth it. Neck-shudder and all.

I call this one, "Envelope Lair" because the web structure she created is like a flat envelope with a narrow opening on one end (I think she has a back door, too). A flattened, cocoon-like lair. The challenge here was in getting my camera to focus on her through the narrow opening. Interstingly enough, I ended up with one shot that looks totally fake because while she's in perfect focus, the plant and surrounding web aren't. It looks like I plucked her out of another photo and photoshopped her in! But, as you can see, I didn't.
I honestly can't believe I found her amist all the dried blooms. She makes her home on the back side of a large bush. I just happened to meander over in hopes of finding some pollen-gathering bees in search of a digital portrait. Imagine my surprise and excitement when I found this instead.
So why the days long affair? As I mentioned, my camera had some difficulty focusing on her with all the dried flowers and surrounding web. And, because my view-finder is not the greatest, I often am not 100% sure if I got the shot or not. A shot might appear to be focused and I skip home, full of anticipation, only to find a blurry mess.
Long story short... It took me a few days to get "the" shot. Thankfully, she wasn't in a hurry to relocate. I have gotten a couple other good shots over the course of our affair that I'll post later.
While our short affair is now over (we simply grew apart), I will likely continue to check up on her -- camera in hand, of course. She's a magnificent one and it'll be hard to move on. But, move on I must.
Finally, I did use the "Dodge" and "Burn" tools in Photoshop elements, following the Pioneer Woman's tutelage. I darkened the surrounding dried blooms in order to pop her color a bit more. I highly recommend the Pioneer Woman's site. She's a wonderful voice and has great info on all things photographic.